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Anonymous asked: its complicated, i am seeing close friends but i need to be able to be by myself without feeling like shit.

all i can say to you i that i understand exactly how your feeling and feelings like yours dont go away easy. it sounds obvious and annoyingly cliche but it does just take time, takes time to get used to the way things are and it will take time to slowly stop feeling like this. but talking from experience these horrible sad feelings your having will go away, it doesnt feel like it but they will. a wise person once told me emotions drop and fly high and iif they do drop like they are now they will fly high again. it often takes a lot longer than you thought it would but dont give up. dont give up on thinking you can be happy because you will be happy again. thats a fact, just try to pick out the good things in life and focus on them. focusing on the bad things will only make you feel like rubbish. sitting and doing nothing or listening to sad music will make it worse. do things you love doing and bit by bit you will start to feel better. it will be ok 

Anonymous asked: nah, i cant talk to the one person i need to, and im writing like daily diaries of my emotions... well letters but it just doesnt seem to be enough

why cant you talk to them? well thats good that is a start, have you been seeing much of your close friends? that can often help seeing friends and spending time with people who care and love you it can make you feel better? try talking to someone else if you cant talk to who you feel you need to, talking is the only way we really let out our emotions

Anonymous asked: i have been confronting it and it just doesnt get any better, i just dont know what to do, i am just struggling right now and i cant find a way to make it go away. things used to be so much better

is there anyone you can talk to about it? or if you can turn the emotions your feeling into something constructive? like poems or songs or art or even like start writing a book or something?

Anonymous asked: i just have shit going on at the moment, and like, i just dont know what to do, im fine when im busy and then as soon as i have time by myself i.e now, i just feel like shit and this like sadness overcomes me, i try and keep myself busy for as long as i can but soon enough you run out of things to do lol

maybe its time you confronted it instead of ignoring the emotions.

you should take time like this to let the emotions out, it is good you are writing how you feel down on this blog because it stops it from getting bunged up in your head. i think if what you have been ignoring has been being ignored for a while that you should confront the feelings. it will feel rubbish at the time but if you confront it now it wont get worse or more intense.

Anonymous asked: hey, i just need someone to talk to right now, i feel... low, and unhappy and yeah, sorry

you have nothing to be sorry for, talk, spill it all, its what the blogs forr

im so lonely now she has gone.